Coping with not getting pregnant

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9 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 22nd, 2015 8:25 AM by bellagreen

Lovinbabies - April 21st, 2011 11:39 PM

How do ya'll do it? Every month I get my period I just like cry the whole day and am so depressed. It is also so hard to stay positive.

Felisha.P.Rime - April 22nd, 2011 1:48 AM

Each one of us have her own coping mechanisms. Me, I try to get busy at work or at home by doing something to take my mind off of the matter. Every now and then my hubby and I will go out do something silly and fun.

We are still TTC. Until now no luck. We've done it all. I guess we're just waiting for it to happen. I believe it will happen one day soon. I can't give up yet because the day I do I think I'm going to be depressed all my life.

Lovinbabies - April 22nd, 2011 1:58 AM

Felisha, how long have ya'll been trying? We have done it all too. I wonder just what else can you do when you feel you have tried all you can do. Its the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with so far.

AnnaK - April 29th, 2011 6:03 PM

Hi all, am in the same boat...had a few issues in the past..i dont know how iam gona react when i find ou i cant have kids..

Lorna - June 18th, 2011 8:00 PM

Anyone suggest anyways of getting pregnant quickly following miscarriage? I had a late miscarriage in November and have been struggling since February to get pregnant. I symphasise with you all. Each month I get my period I am awful and it is so hard to stay positive.
Guess we have all just got to hang on in there and be patient
xx

Kirsten23 - July 6th, 2011 9:08 PM

Me and my husband have been trying for almost 2 years to have a baby with no luck. Ive been seeing an ob/gyn and have been through two rounds of fertility treatments. Nothing. im so frustrated and it seems like everyone around is getting pregnant. nobody seems to understand what im going through and why i cry all the time. im glad i found this website so someone will know understand what im feeling

Meghan81 - July 7th, 2011 2:39 PM

We just recently started trying and all I think about is pregnancy. How do you guys take your mind off of your trying to achieve? Can you give me any tips, I feel like I'm driving myself crazy!

Gwynyth - July 11th, 2011 6:21 PM

We've been trying for 1,5 years now, and just started a fertility treatment. Every month, when it turned out not pregnant, I just thought of a reason why it would be better when it'd happen the next month. Never give up, because I've seen couple grow apart and break up over fertility problems and how heavy it was for them :( Just try and see the positive in having the baby a month later... It's just as heavy for your partner, when it didn't work out, so I don't cry when he sees it. I'll tell him though, that I'm a bit sad it didn't happen, but that there's always next month (even though for me, time's kind of running out due to medical reasons).

Rockybear - July 11th, 2011 8:59 PM

My hubby and I have been trying for 4 years..now we are over the 40 mark :( tried the fertile shots 4 times no luck...now considering the use of an egg donor... as far as for coping...I have pets...have 5 dogs and now 4 alpacas.. one was just born 7/7... I don't go overboard in treating them like babies, but they to teach some of the sacrifices you will need to make when you have a baby and when feel down you can hold them in your arms and it help in the cheering up phase :)

bellagreen - December 22nd, 2015 8:25 AM

I was diagnosed of hydrosalpinx 3 years ago and i have tried various treatment options including surgery. But my condition is not cured anyway. I found one herbal therapy named Fuyan Pill by accident through Google research one day and i tried for 3 months. Amazing! I got pregnant sucessfully after 5 months. I'd like t o share my experience with others who have the same problem with me and hope each woman can have their own baby one day! Good luck!