i am sorry to read that worried. have you checked with your ob yet? what seems to be the problem?

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we haven't really consulted about the cause of this because in my case, i am afraid that the doctor might say that i don't have any chance of getting pregnant. i wanted to try for another year then i will decide to have some tests.

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I want to be frank with you worried. If you are in denial of the fact then it will not help you at all. There is no difference if you consult now or a year after with your doctor. It will only prolong your agony and might also worsen your relationship with your husband.

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That is fine worried, if you are not ready yet then take your time. I don't think your husband will easily give up. Just show him that you are still trying and you are willing to give your best.

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thanks for all your opinions: urie: i am not in denial but i just want to prove to myself that i am normal, patricia: thanks, just what i needed.

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Then when is the right time for you to consult a doctor, when he already give up on you? For you to stop worrying, it's just best to know what;'s really is the problem, so you can find some solutions as early as possible.

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surely kids isnt just the reason you go married? consider this one of those things that married people go through. if your strong enough then you guys should go through this OK.

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i know myself and when i am ready i will do it. it's just that i have some things to prove maybe it is hard for you to understand it. thanks anyway.

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for me, it's best if you consult to a doctor early than waiting too long. however, i respect your decision and you must follow what's your desire.

Maybe, while waiting just keep healthy and stress free. This might help you fight the risks of infertility if ever.

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