We can face it, practically speaking it does eat most of our time and money but just think of the ultimate goal for this one. It is a life that is priceless and you can call your own.

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i second that gail. in some cases maybe that no matter how hard they try nothing happened then you just have to go to the next level and seek other options that you can agree on as a couple.

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it may sound harsh but it is definitely a waste of money, i can do with the time spent.

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hope is only gone if you dont believe in it. in reality, it is better to stop at some point but it is a personal decision.

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I AGREE WITH PATTY. EVERY PERSON HAS HER LIMITS AND IF THAT IS HOW YOU SEE IT BEVS THEN IT IS YOUR CALL.

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You need to think positive. I think if you really want something, you will do whatever or how long it will take.

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its better to have tried than to have kept on wondering. if you go through a test and a doctor says you have a "slim chance" would you do it? I guess its a personal choice and whether or not it is a waste of resources is also a personal answer.

Personally, I would try, unless of course I the doctor said with finality that there is no possible way.

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While we are still on earth we must not lose our hope, Hope is the best thing that must do if there is a slim chance. There's nothing impossible with God! Hold onto Him.

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If the doctor says that my infertility is irreversibe then there are other options like adoption. but if he says there is a chance, then its only over till the fat lady sings.

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this is not a waste of time for me. becoz due to the urgency to have a baby, you'll always find ways and do everything just for the ultimate desire to have a child. this priceless and fulfilling.

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