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Sally_Jhoy - June 1st, 2010 8:00 AM

My partner really want to have a baby, I also did. With my age now of 34, I'm afraid that if I can't conceive this year, I can no longer have a baby. But, as much as I want to have baby, I hate the idea of having sex. For me, sex really sucks!! I don't like this feeling about sex really, but this is what I feel to be honest. That's why I need your help..how to bring back my sexual desire.


jacquiline - June 1st, 2010 8:03 AM

You want to have a baby, and you feel that sex sucks? I'm quite confused, which is really which?


Geraldine - June 1st, 2010 8:10 AM

I think you have that kind of feeling about sex is because you expects too much from it.And when you did not reach your expectations, then that's the time when you feel that it sucks!! Why not having fun and just enjoy the intimate time you have together.


heatherlyn - June 1st, 2010 8:16 AM

While engaging in sexual intercourse, you need to concentrate on indulging yourself and not just to experience orgasm. Just enjoy a prolonged moment of sexual pleasures without anticipating orgasm and let it come naturally.


monique - June 1st, 2010 12:56 PM

Sexual intercourse are part of married life. And you said that you both want to have a baby, how will you do it if you feel that sex sucks? Kindly make this thing clear?


marcy - June 1st, 2010 3:51 PM

maybe this is why you cant get pregnant. all that negative energy is having a bad effect on your body and mind set.

are you not attracted to your partner? maybe that's another reason. whatever it is, attitude can have profound effect, physically and mentally.


Monna - June 1st, 2010 9:57 PM

I think you need to tell your partner about it. Be honest to him and get rid of that negative feeling, sometimes it is just psychological.


PinkStar - June 1st, 2010 10:26 PM

Try make sexual intercourse interesting and fun. Go to motels and watch a movie that could stimulate you. That could really help a lot to bring back your sexual desire.


Jester - July 15th, 2010 4:00 AM

I think your attitude contributes to your being childless. All that negative aura and energy cant be good for you and your baby.

Also, maybe you dont find sex pleasureable because your partner does not know how to please you. Try some foreplay... its fun!


sweet_daisy - February 7th, 2011 1:08 PM

you are very different! coz we all know by nature, that as human we like sex. and many love to have sex... that's why there are many premarital issues today.


kol_meMai - February 7th, 2011 2:52 PM

try to use your creativity and find fun in doing sex. or better to put into your mind even you feel sex sucks, why not think your desire to have a baby?


vev_webb - February 7th, 2011 3:02 PM

Sex is a vital part of marriage, and sometimes this may cause problems to couples if one of them is not considerate to his/her partner's need.


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