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SK8 - September 17th, 2010 1:19 AM

have you noticed that you have zero sex drive when you are stressed?

I noticed this too and its really hard not to get stressed at work and when you are TTC. =(


SJ23 - September 17th, 2010 3:45 AM

Yes! Sex is the last thing on my mind when I am stressed!


Sally - September 17th, 2010 6:03 AM

I think it is depends on a person f he or she can't manage his or her stress. I for myself did my best not to be controlled by my stress and still find time to have a relaxing sex with my partner.


Yonnie - September 17th, 2010 6:08 AM

Yap, me too don't like to have sex with my partner if I'm really over stressed with lots of work deadlines.


babyLOVE - September 18th, 2010 1:24 AM

Sex is actually a great stress reliever. It is comforting and afterwards you feel very relaxed because of the endorphins. The problem is getting aroused. How do you get aroused when stressful things are on your mind]?


BabeJohnson - September 18th, 2010 3:21 AM

I find that if I am stressed, sex can distract me. I dont have a problem getting aroused but sometimes I feel as though I am using my hubby for a punching bag! hahahah... that's why I hit the gym, destress and then ravish him after wards! =)


daphne - September 19th, 2010 1:23 AM

That's why you need to avoid yourself in too much stress so that you will not be having a zero sex life.hehe..


Guinevere - September 19th, 2010 3:55 AM

I dont like to have sex while stressed. I usually go out and take a walk while listening to music. If hubby is with me then we usually just end up drinking a bottle of wine to relax and then just sleep it off.


candyKane - September 20th, 2010 5:02 AM

stress does not make me feel sexy at all. and while i agree that it is a good stress reliever, i would rather eat a tub of chocolate ice cream than have sex!


jinky - September 29th, 2010 12:06 PM

Mine is different. When I'm so over stressed, I make sure that I would get enough of sex..for me, sex is my stress reliever.hehe


Fionah - October 7th, 2010 11:41 AM

Sex is always a wrong timing if I'm so stressed that's why i tend to avoid stress as much as possible. But sad to say..it's really not that easy to avoid stress if you are working, and much more if you are not.


starstruck - February 8th, 2011 1:27 AM

yes, i noticed it. it's very difficult to drive my mind into sex if i'm stress and honestly i won't like to intercourse when i'm stressed. this is one of my problems, coz my husband likes too and i refused it.


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