any guidance..

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any guidance..

11 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 27th, 2011 5:34 AM by Maragirl

Betsky - February 27th, 2011 2:43 AM

i'm 26 yr. old, married for 3 years. i dont' know before that i am incapable to have a baby. I felt useless, helpless and depressed.

I felt that i am the one who my husband deserves. i can't give him a baby, i felt so depressed...

sminn99 - February 27th, 2011 3:38 AM

don't think it that way. this can't help you but push you to depression. And we all know that depression will harms you.

Soy.30 - February 27th, 2011 4:15 AM

if you;re husband will change if he know you are incapable then he is not true for you.

LovyPoe11 - February 27th, 2011 4:21 AM

exactly Soy.30! he should not change even if you're not incapalbe. anywayz, don't lose hope Betsky.. there are now many avialble infertility treatmetn that will help you.

Good luck!

carmina - February 27th, 2011 4:25 AM

feeling this way is inevitable. however, you have the choice either to fight it or let it rule over you!

you know the consequences of your decision.

giftedbeauty - February 27th, 2011 4:38 AM

why not consult a doctor instead of being depressed. find a way they cna help you Betsky...

Godess@2011 - February 27th, 2011 4:42 AM

oh yes! this is the right thing to do, go and consult a doctor rather than being felling depressed and a lot of negatives ;)

Melissa - February 27th, 2011 4:49 AM

you should fight it Betsky.

you must see the beuty of life itself.. anyway, you can find a solution to this. why not talk this over your husband, if he loves you he will understand and support you!

simplyDonna - February 27th, 2011 4:57 AM

I'M SO SORRY DEAR... don't lose hope..im here for you. hugs!!!

Kevin - February 27th, 2011 5:01 AM

i am a husband too.. Melissa's opinion is right.

i will understand adn help and still love my wife inspite of this infertility. this is a true husband.

preciouswoman - February 27th, 2011 5:24 AM

there are right! tell this problem to your hsuband.

in this way, you can measure also how he loves and value you!

good luck!..

Maragirl - February 27th, 2011 5:34 AM

i am the same with you Betsky. but so thankful, coz my husband understands me and help me so much. i felt comforted and at peace teh time i told him.

you must have the courage Betsky..