make sex fun

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make sex fun

7 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 5th, 2010 2:37 AM by Helene_W

marcy - July 19th, 2010 2:04 PM

when you are ttc sex tends to become a chore and not sexy anymore. its like you have to get a baby not to make love anymore. So lighten up a little and make sex fun. You can do this by exploring your kinks and fetishes. You can also bring out the sex toys to make sex more exciting!

DoNnA - July 19th, 2010 2:58 PM

I know what you mean. After years of being married sex can be repetitive.

I like your suggestion of sex toys since we are up for experimenting but not really fully explored the world of sex toys.

Geraldine - August 20th, 2010 12:37 PM

Well, pardon me but I think it's really fun to have sex even without using some kind of sex toys. Just explore the different body parts of your partner is more like interesting!

Lainie - August 21st, 2010 4:33 PM

Sex during ttc is mechanical... a means to an end. Sex is supposed to be sexy and relaxing. It's not a chore. I'm no prude. Hubby and I have sex toys and then some! Sex toys aren't for everybody but they can make sex more fun, spontaneous, sexier and more orgasmic for both partners.

And we all know that orgasms can help conceive! hahahaha!

AaronJames - August 26th, 2010 2:26 PM

You should talk each other before doing the sexual fight. You should share everything to your partner and talk for hours. Then think of a way of how your partner be aroused. Don't be shy. be a mistress to your husband.

marcy - August 30th, 2010 2:30 AM

Sexual fight.... meow!

hahahah! Yeah talking can be fun, but talking dirty even more!

judith - August 30th, 2010 6:21 AM

Yeah! it is fun to have sex with love and respect. But whether it is done through respect and love still there are more seductive approach. So there is an excitement in doing it, any way you are a couple having an agreement.

Helene_W - September 5th, 2010 2:37 AM

I am so in there with you guys.

Its like... oh babe, im ovulating, let's have sex. and then we just do it. No kissing, caressing and no loving, its just sex. it can be frustrating but we always make it up to each other. Sex should be an expression of your love and sexual feelings for your partner.