You're right! But unfortunately, with this present times, things like that can't be avoided..especially with the young generations of today.

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There are some teenagers who wants to engage sex at their age, and they said, that they are just preparing themselves to have a happy marriage. But the question is, Is it possible for one to try out what it feels to be dead by sleeping very deeply?How can you stand having a child without marriage?

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Sometimes our wants may not be granted because of the wrong procedure that has been used. Why not having sex heartily without a feeling of guilt,like after marriage so in times of conception, the fetus is in the safe situation.

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That's true and i think it's because of so much media influences..which makes the young ones today to eager and too hot to have premarital sex.

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Yeah... but premarital sex is fun! :D

What is important is responsibility. If you are old enough to take responsibility of your actions then you are old enough to have sex.

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Pre-marital sex is like the norm. I am not condoning or supporting it but you have to admit that a lot of unmarried people engage in the act. It's not a bad thing. Sex can be an expression of love. there's nothing disgusting about it.

If you feel guilty, or had low self esteem because of sex then you had sex with the wrong person, or you weren't ready in the first place. Sex is an expression. Also, you know what they say: are you going to buy a car without taking it out for a test drive?

marriage is serious stuff and sex isBIG part of a happy and fulfilling marriage. let's not be sanctimonious here. like madame_cora said if you're big enough to handle the consequences, you're mature enough to have sex. Married or not married.

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Premarital or not, sex can result to pregnancy.

I thought this was about getting pregnant. IMO the only thing that's wrong with premarital sex is that when you are not responsible enough to support your child and partner.

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I've known a couple who were having a pre-marital sex. Five times to be exact they made this thing . They got marriage. But the effect, the wife has not been able to conceive since then. The couple have gotten a guilt feeling because they had done a pre-marital sex and they have thought that what have happened to them it was because of their sin of fornication. How can I help them?

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When God created Adam and Eve, He invented, SEX. His original plan was for sexual union to be the supreme expression of intimacy and love in a life-long commitment. Sexual intimacy was God's gift of pleasure and renewed life.

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But in premarital sex it is a sin of fornication, doing the thing intended only to those tied by a marriage vow. With blessing's from God the husband and wife may gain good product in doing there sexual play.They are the Pro-creator of God.

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