A Child Abuse Victim

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9 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 8th, 2011 4:33 AM by Anita

Xiersha - July 7th, 2010 12:28 PM

I am married for almost 5yrs. but I have not able to conceive. I have had a bad experience in my childhood, I was abused by our neighbor. And this sad experience always haunts me every time my husband and I have made intercourse. This is the reason which I think that I have not able to conceive. Can you advice me what am I going to do?

joanne - July 7th, 2010 1:44 PM

I think you need a counseling for your past and very traumatic experience. You need to move on and be honest and open up to your boyfriend what you feel about every time you have sex. Maybe he can help you..get over with your past experience.

marcy - July 8th, 2010 3:43 AM

My suggestion is therapy. Maybe there are memories that make you psychologically unable to coneceive. A standard check up of your reproductive organs should also clear matters.

Ernaarlie - July 8th, 2010 12:34 PM

You may consult to a doctor and pour out your bad experience and to think that until now you are not able to conceive then may be it is a psychological case.

Ysah - July 10th, 2010 1:02 AM

You have to move on and get over with your bad past experiences. Remember, you are now on your other phase in life and you have your husband who has his needs also. Don't let your relationship with your husband ruin with such bad experiences. So again, move on!

Serolf - July 10th, 2010 4:21 AM

I can sense in your case that you have a trauma of what had happened to you in the past, But I salute you of your courage to stand on your own feet and you are able to face the reality and able to recover of that sad experienced. My advice to you is forget everything which is bad,what was done could not be undone. Success lies in your hands.

Warrenz - July 12th, 2010 1:21 PM

In my own opinion, you must consult a psychiatrist with the permission of your husband.In doing this, it might help you to release all the tensions you've been experience.

Kirby - July 12th, 2010 2:14 PM

May I suggest that you see a professional. This is not just for your future as a mother but for your own person. You dont have to live in trauma you know. There are ways of overcoming these types of hardships.

Lauren - July 16th, 2010 3:21 AM

why do you hesitate to get help? are you ashamed of what happened to you? its better if you accept it, get help and get better.

Anita - February 8th, 2011 4:33 AM

For me this is not the reason on why you aren't able to conceive. However, you need to have counseling regarding your bad past experience (I know this is not easy). But you deserve the Life what God wants for you that's full of happiness, joy, love and peace.