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violett26 - February 15th, 2011 5:32 PM

hi everyone,
i'm new to this..My husband and i have been trying for about 1 yr to concieve our 2 nd child and we r having no luck :(.. we both had certain tests done and everything turned out fine. i took ovulation test and we had intercourse at the right time. my periods are normal.i just dont understand because with my son iwasnt planned, all it took was one time and i was pregnant. it's jut so frustuating now that we are married and financially stable it's just not happenning. my son just turned 5. i would love to give him a brother or sister. it's just really tearing me apart. we don't have thousands of dollars to spend on fertilty treatment. i just dont know what to do and im really giving up hope at this point..just needed to vent :(

cuttys - February 15th, 2011 11:04 PM

hi violett26,

don't lose hope. just remember, there are thousands i think "obviously many" who are like in your situation but for long time waiting dream really comes true to have a baby..

Just don't lose hope, this can't help but think positive! Remember, what ever you think, believe and feel will happen. :)

sweetie - February 16th, 2011 12:55 AM

you should not lose hope..this is the only weapon to continue life...

mY advise is best if you consult a doctor :D

violett26 - February 16th, 2011 4:34 AM

thank you both for your positive thoughts! I'm going to try and think positive even though its very hard too..thanks again :)

sweetie - February 16th, 2011 1:43 PM

I'm happy for you violett26. I felt the hope is in you and the positive mental attitude. Well goodluck and i'm happy for you :D

Lora84 - February 17th, 2011 10:40 AM

dont be frustrated..maybe this is not yet the right time for you to get pregnant.. pls. consult also your obgyn about this. Both of you must consult a doctor.

cris - February 17th, 2011 4:07 PM

dear violett26,

why not consult on a doctor? yeah it's a right time for you to get pregnant coz your son is already 5 adn you're financially stable.

Monic - February 17th, 2011 4:18 PM

i agree to all of them violett26, and i understand on your part as well i'm sorry that this is happening to you

violett26 - February 17th, 2011 4:47 PM

we did go to a fertility doctor a few months ago and everything checked ot fine. my husbands sperm count was above average and motility and i had the test done where they check your fallopian tubes and my tubes were clear. i get my period every 28-30 days and ive used ovulation tests and i ovualte every month. i just cant figure it out. maybe im stressing about it too much. the doctors at the fertility place recommended IUI which costs 2,000 which idont have to spend on that. so im back at sq one. my gyno prescribed me clomid. i havent taken it yet. i wanted to read up on it more. the only health conditon i have is a thyroid conditon since i was 13 and have been on synthriod since (im 26 yrs old now btw) its been stable and i recently had blood work done and everything chgeck out fine, so i know it cant be that. maybe with the clomid wew ill have some luck!

sminn99 - February 17th, 2011 5:28 PM

I'm very sorry to hear this violett26. i have an idea what's clomid.

Clomid (clomiphene) is used to stimulate ovulation when the ovaries can produce a follicle but hormonal stimulation is deficient. the most commonly used fertility drug, and with good reason. Clomid is easy to use and effective in stimulating ovulation 80% of the time.

hope this help you :D

Steph - February 17th, 2011 6:16 PM

this is a medication for fertility problems related to ovulation "simply as ovarian disorders"

Simple84 - February 17th, 2011 7:06 PM

better to ask for your doctor of the pros and cons of this clomid violett26. coz i have learned from the article i read that clomid risk to breast cancer.

Hearty - February 18th, 2011 2:00 AM

yeah clomid can help, however i have heard that you'll have risk for cancer...try to clarify to your doctor on this for your sake :D

Monic - February 18th, 2011 3:21 AM

its really best to refer to a doctor..don't hesitate to ask all your worries and concerns

Betsky - February 18th, 2011 2:47 PM

im so soryy hearing on this. but never give up but keep in hoping and trying. dont' worry the doctors are there to help.

clomid as i knew, is the first one to introduce of most doctor.

Lora84 - February 18th, 2011 3:03 PM

oh..this is gud news on clomid it treats infertility but in return it can possibly cause breast cancer..is there anyway rather than this treatmetn?

carmina - February 20th, 2011 2:49 AM

if you finanlly decided for clomid treatment or whatever, just also use the natural way of treatment..like eating the right food,that helps boost your fetrtility, healthy lifestyle and avoid stress.

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