is it for you?

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is it for you?

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 3rd, 2011 12:38 PM by anne210

shygirl - March 1st, 2011 4:07 PM

hi to all!

i'm not yet ready to get pregnant but i did it! because i do so, i want to fight for this baby no matter what, coz i can't take abortion to my conscience.

someone told me, that some women really take good care of their baby (eating the right food, taking vitamins, etc).. so careful for their baby but sad to say the baby is loss or has miscarriage. While there are others that who did opposite , not taking good care or love their baby but the baby is healthy.

then , finally she told me "if it is for you then it's really for you".

then , i will ask this question " is it for you?"

Steph - March 1st, 2011 6:08 PM

i'm proud of you shygirl! not all have the courage in fighting their baby if they don't like yet to get pregnant.

I also agree on what you're friend has said.

anne210 - March 3rd, 2011 12:38 PM

That statement - "if it is for you then it's really for you" - is an answer one would get from someone who does not know what to advice or does not want to talk about your situation/issues. It is like saying, "so be it." Leave it up to fate in other words.

Do you want to have a baby or not? Answer that question. Yes? Then do everything to have that baby. It will not just fall down on your lap. No mythical stork will bring a baby to you. Life is not a fairy tale.