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Clv86 - February 19th, 2011 4:02 PM

Hello all,
Just want some friendly advice really, I am 24 and happily married to a lovely 26 year old man. I suffer from polycycystic ovary syndrome and so I am aware of the possibility of having trouble concieving. My doctor has said to start trying no later than 27 just in case. The problem is that I am doing a degree 2 years in and 2 to go and once qualified will have to work as a trainee for a year so by then I will 27. My husband and I own our 1 bed flat and can not sell due to the recession and so have no space for a baby. My husband wants to wait in the hope that by the time I complete my trainee year the Market will have recovered enough for us to sell and buy a house and in principle I agree. The difficulty I am having is being so scared I will be unable to concieve, I am so worried it\'s all I think of. Also as weird as it sounds I feel like my body is craving a baby like I really really want one. I feel myself getting annoyed when I find out about other people getting pregnant. I have spoken to my husband about how I feel but he doesn\'t think it\'s the right time. How do I make the cravings go away?


Glynda - March 1st, 2011 4:58 AM

There is no cure for that I guess. Every woman, or maybe most, by instinct wants to be a mother at some point in their lives. Why I often hear several of my single friends and work colleagues say that it is ok if they don't get married, just as long as they have a beautiful baby.

Decisions have to be made and weighed - which one is more important in you and your husband's lives: a career or a family.

Weight it out carefully. It will define the future of you both.


violet - March 1st, 2011 7:44 AM

Get extremely busy with school or work or whatever you can get your hands on. Find a hobby to keep yourself busy during times when you are free.

The key is to not let yourself think about having a baby. Distract yourself from that thought.


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